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Your New House, Area and Life

As important as packing, unpacking is just as difficult. These expert tips will help you get started.

Once you feel settled in your home, move out and plant new roots. These are some tips to help you quickly become part of your neighborhood. Hint: Many tips involve leaving your house and meeting new people.

Be The First To Move

Some places will allow neighbors to deliver a casserole right before the moving vans arrive. Wait, that was 1954. Nowadays, everyone is working and taking care of their parents. It's just not possible to give up on our neighbors. Don't wait for your neighbors to make their first move. Introduce yourself to the neighbors by knocking on their doors. Invite the neighbors to a housewarming.

Be Friendly

You are more likely to make new friends if you're more open-minded and friendly. Instead of watching Netflix in your house, sip lemonade outside. You should greet people who walk their dogs after dinner. Ask them a question to get them talking. Ask your neighbors where the best dry cleaners are. Or if there is a dog park near you. Anything that will let them know that you are new to the neighborhood and want to know them.

Local Shopping

It is the best way to feel connected to a community, to go to where others go. You can find the best markets, pharmacies, and coffee shops, as well as burger joints, bakeries, and burger locations. After work, stop by your local bars and find a place where you can strike up a conversation. Introduce yourself to cashiers and owners.

Get Involved

Once you have unpacked the last box, join your local community or neighborhood groups online or in person. It's a great way for people to get to know each other and to be involved in local issues. Also, sign up if your local listserv has a social network. These chat rooms are great for anything from plumbers to pediatricians.

Join A House Of Worship

Houses of worship don't have to be about God, no matter your spiritual path. Instead, they are a way to build relationships that support and care for each other. You can build a friendship network by attending the services, lectures, and other charitable activities sponsored by the group.

Volunteer Wherever You Are

Volunteering is a great way to warm your heart and make new friends. Volunteering to help in school is an easy way to connect with other parents if you have children. You can also pick a passionate cause and work for it, such as a candidate, helping to stock a food bank, or reading stories to children. You will find a purpose in each activity, and you'll be able to provide a valuable service and meet others with similar interests.

Don't Forget

  • Connect with your college alumni group to make connections with your former classmates in your new location.

  • To make new friends with your family, visit local parks and rec centers.

  • Visit your local library to meet other readers.